This is more of a question than a suggestion, but I think it belongs here.
Why have the censoring systems on Private Messages been so heavily boosted? I understand that this IS a Family Friendly Forum, but Private Messages are supposed to be Private. Why censor it, without giving it a user choice option, not to mention censoring something only one person (Or more if selected, but certainly not everyone) will receive? Just a checkmark or something for censoring would be nice, instead of permanent pacifism in text.