Post by: Komito on December 12, 2005, 12:24:51 am
any one else outthere like me?
Post by: KiyoshiAkita on December 12, 2005, 12:33:33 am
Strap me down and call me your pet, and I'd be your friend for life
Post by: Komito on December 12, 2005, 12:37:36 am
My owner is a Panda also an Otter 2 fursonas which I also have my unicorn one and my black panther one. He promises to leash me around in public irl "if" I move in with him and his mate ^^ the If I will talk about more as more replys come in.
Post by: Karizma on December 12, 2005, 12:39:12 am
| Quote (KiyoshiAkita @ Dec. 11 2005, 11:33 pm) |
| Collars are cool. I'd enjoy being on a collar and leash - When I was in high school, I had a leash that I wore for a while..... Strap me down and call me your pet, and I'd be your friend for life |
Quoted so I don't have to type it all out again.
Me too, buddy, me too.
Post by: Komito on December 12, 2005, 12:42:48 am
My SL name is Kimito Padar IM me or something lol.
I love to cuddle, take naps, play SL (a whole freaking lot).
My owner and his mate are both very cute and none of them are fat lol (don't kill me from that comment, not saying being fat is bad or anything just nice to have a cute, skinny owner)
Post by: Wolfen on December 12, 2005, 01:45:09 am
Post by: inzomniac on December 12, 2005, 02:20:45 am
Post by: Komito on December 12, 2005, 02:47:35 am
" (I don't know how to do quotes so lol) how did you do that *evil voice* Tell me...
Post by: Wolfen on December 12, 2005, 03:26:33 am
Pet certificate
And used photoshop to delete out the parts I didn't want, and convincingly replaced them with my own. I was gonna do an AKC one first, but all they gots are papers for AKC registration, not certificates. (unless someone could find some type of AKC cert)
Oh jeh, and to do dem quotes, you just press that quote button up above, paste the text, and press the quote button again. You can always preview to make sure it comes out right
Post by: Komito on December 12, 2005, 03:29:23 am
Post by: Sirrinose on December 12, 2005, 12:26:16 pm
Post by: phelanhawk on December 12, 2005, 01:17:46 pm
I'm not particularly fond of collars or leashes, because, well...
Well, birdy just don't like collars.
But it could be arranged...
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Post by: FelixSunnyFox on December 12, 2005, 04:38:22 pm
Post by: Komito on December 12, 2005, 07:57:07 pm
Post by: RedneckFur on December 12, 2005, 08:12:04 pm
Glad to hear that youre happy being a pet. Hope your owner treats you well! Do the reasearch before you move in with him though...I know a few furs who have gotten themselves hurt both emotionally and physically doing the same thing. But if youre comfortable doing it, Good luck and godspeed!
Me, I've always wanted to be someones pet. The one time I tried didnt work out so well though. My GF at the time, (now my ex gf
) Wasnt comfortable with the idea of a submissive male and saw it as a sign of weakness. She thought the Idea of me wearing a collar was bizare, if not intredibly perverted and discusting. Cute idea on the pet certificates too
I should make myself onePost by: Komito on December 12, 2005, 08:32:29 pm
Post by: Far_Raptor on December 13, 2005, 01:48:30 am
| Quote (Koogs @ Dec. 12 2005, 11:03 am) |
| IM a pet to L Ron Hubbard. We cuddle all the time in his mystic chamber of vitamin mist and self realization. |
Ahhhh...so that's how you got to OT level 5 so quickly.
How does it feel to be free of all those thetans?
~FaR~
Post by: Rooster on December 13, 2005, 11:00:19 am
My big sister bought me a dog collar with an inscribed name tag for my 16th birthday, but I don't think she meant it in that way.
I gorram lost it at a theme park.
I was gutted...
Post by: Gnoll on December 13, 2005, 03:00:39 pm
Post by: on December 13, 2005, 03:48:46 pm
| Quote (Far_Raptor @ Dec. 13 2005, 1:48 am) | ||
Ahhhh...so that's how you got to OT level 5 so quickly. How does it feel to be free of all those thetans? ~FaR~ |
It feels good LOL! But, to reach level 7 he wants my first born hybrid baby (that i will birth myself) and a mercedes SL600
Post by: Obsydian on December 13, 2005, 03:52:26 pm
Post by: Spike on December 13, 2005, 04:03:20 pm
I'm gonna try and get another tag with "if lost please return to Kyra" or something like that X3 (she is my gf)
Post by: on December 13, 2005, 05:25:59 pm
-Mik
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on December 13, 2005, 05:35:51 pm
| Quote |
| When I start lookng for a mate I'll be trying to find a girl who wouldn't mind a pet 'yena... the thought of being skritched behind the ears... *murrs* |
Rawr for hyenaboys. Not enough of them, I say!
Post by: on December 13, 2005, 06:48:28 pm
| Quote (KeeperOfDreams @ Dec. 13 2005, 5:35 pm) |
| Rawr for hyenaboys. Not enough of them, I say! |
I SECOND THAT! 'Yena Boys are the best!
Mik Genocide, Ferret with a 'Yena obsession
Post by: KiyoshiAkita on December 13, 2005, 07:08:57 pm
| Quote (Genocide @ Dec. 13 2005, 12:25 pm) |
| My master bought me one of those leases that connects to the clothesline so I can run around in the back yard. Cause I used to run off alot. -Mik |
Post by: okamifujutsu on December 14, 2005, 01:38:01 am
Post by: Skunkster on December 14, 2005, 04:14:03 am
I don't do that subservient thing well at all.
Truthfully though, having been a combat shrink for the last 8 years, I would worry a lot about the phychological reasons behind wanting to receive and wanting to dish out on something like that.
I'd be especially worried about an adult couple wanting a minor in that sort of position.
That said and additional questions aside, I'd say it depends mostly on the personality of the person.
Post by: Dragonfox on December 14, 2005, 11:45:28 am
If I were to have a "property of" tag, it'd probably say something like "Property of no one" or "Property of JC" (religious).
Generally I don't mind pet/submissive ideas if it's in play or within a healthy relationship. I've seen the unhealthy side of that, so it in general rubs my fur the wrong way.
Post by: weredog on December 14, 2005, 03:39:08 pm
Post by: Bengal on December 14, 2005, 05:27:20 pm
Post by: on December 14, 2005, 06:38:27 pm
Although, on a slightly different note, I think having a furry BUTLER would be cool. I mean, I think it would be great to have, I dunno, something like a 6 foot anthro orangutan in a tux, talking in a snobby british accent, snidley serving me martinis and highballs and whatnot all day. Ah, that would be the life!
I know that's not what we're talking about here, but oh well.
Post by: Mazz on December 14, 2005, 08:12:44 pm
so no your not alone.
However you have to determine wether you use it in the fetish sence or not.
Post by: Rooster on December 14, 2005, 08:27:23 pm
But in a relationship? Hmm, I dunno. I was always the subservient one in my last relationship, but I don't know if that was by choice or because I'm a naturally shy person.
Post by: Komito on December 14, 2005, 11:07:59 pm
| Quote (Mazz @ Dec. 14 2005, 8:12 pm) |
| I asked master if I was his pet and he said yes.... so no your not alone. However you have to determine wether you use it in the fetish sence or not. |
heh I' am a pet, not in the fetish sence, maybe a cuddle or so every now and then
. and one of my owners is only 1 year older than me and I have done alot more than just "research" on my owners. Ty for telling me though .
Post by: Vulpes Proeliator on December 14, 2005, 11:24:26 pm
Oh, I've always wanted one, they're sooo cute. I'm just worried about cleaning up after them, though.
Post by: Komito on December 14, 2005, 11:58:21 pm
| Quote (Vulpes Proeliator @ Dec. 14 2005, 11:24 pm) |
| A furry pet? Oh, I've always wanted one, they're sooo cute. I'm just worried about cleaning up after them, though. |
... oh haha lol
Post by: Claudio on December 16, 2005, 11:38:43 pm
| Quote (Komito @ Dec. 12 2005, 7:57 pm) |
| Hmmmmm LMTO what to say... F***.... lol... Well my owner is very happy with me and I love him as My owner ^^ he is not my mate though heh... and I'am not his pet for sex lol... ((too much info for some of the lil ones sorry))and I would love to get to know you guys better and tell me about how to keep collars hidden from your parents untill you move out lol all the while still wearing one as much as you can >< |
Hehe... Thats cool. I wouldn't mind being someone's pet. And the collars and parents... well, i wear mine everywhere. They just pass it off (judging from the fact that they just credit it to my already spontaneous personality) as acceptable, just as long as I take it off at the annual family chritmas party. ^^ But i digress... Yea, you are definatly not alone with the pet leashes and the collars. And as for the little ones... Im one of the youngest(lol 15) and its all good.
Post by: Komito on December 17, 2005, 02:55:05 am
16 here lol. I know it seems like a major comittment at my age but you know what. My parents are awful in my eyes. My dad watches porn in front of his little 3 year olds. My mom can't accept me being a furry and I had to convince her that I'am not one so I don't get pulled away from the internet/ outside world, and my mom doesnt respect anything about furries. I know she is just worrying but she has to think, I' am 16 I have done my research, I can choose my own path now, a furry and a writer (or digital art either way). My brother well, hes a little brother that is annoying of course (it's their job or something ><). My antes/ uncles are either in jail or hiding in anger and fear of real life. My cusins are getting harassed by their step parents 24/7, and they won't do anything about it. My grand parents are the only good ones yet they don't care what is ever going on. The area I live in sucks, no one likes me as a friend, there are no furries here, I'am so alone here. My only path to happyness in my eyes is a collage, and living with my dearest owner.
Post by: Seti on December 17, 2005, 11:43:03 pm
Post by: Duskyl on December 18, 2005, 08:26:06 am
Post by: Foxtrot on December 18, 2005, 10:20:43 am
Post by: ObliviousAlly on December 19, 2005, 07:05:08 pm
| Quote |
| My mate takes me for walks in public, and I've worn a collar and leash for the better part of my adult life. And while I consider myself her pet, I'm not really sure what her take on the whole thing is. |
You're alot more to me than just my pet, dear. <3
| Quote |
| I'd love to be a pet. In a non-fetish sense. I'm a little lap cat. |
I'm sorry, but to everyone saying 'in a non-fetish sense', being someone's pet IS a fetish. It's a dominant/submissive situation, wether anyone wants to admit to it or not. And, like anything D/S, it's not something to be played around with. There's alot of trust that goes into that kind of thing. You HAVE to be able to trust your 'master'.
Maybe I'm just screaming on deaf ears, but alot of the people in this thread are very young. Looking back, I wouldn't have trusted myself to make a decision like this when I was 15 or 16. Or maybe I'm just not the 'pet' type. I don't want to be under someone's wing all the time. That's not how I am. I'm not able to be that kind of person. I could really go off on a tangent fro a psychological standpoint, but I don't think that's what anyone's looking for here.
Post by: ShadyWolf on December 19, 2005, 08:40:01 pm
Post by: Komito on December 20, 2005, 02:38:26 am
Post by: DDD on December 20, 2005, 04:29:34 am
DDD
Post by: ObliviousAlly on December 20, 2005, 09:25:14 am
| Quote (Komito @ Dec. 20 2005, 2:38 am) |
| I think when we say non- fetish sense we are talking about being pets but not being pets for sex. Like me I'll cuddle with my master but sex isnt something we would get into (my master is mated anyway). Also I'am a type of pet that isnt going to be bondaged other than a collar and leash (which my master agrees with) so I'am more of a real house pet than anything else ^^. |
A fetish doesn't have to involve sex. Read:
fet·ish also fet·ich - Pronunciation Key (ftsh, ftsh) n.
1. An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.
2. An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.
3. Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
4. An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.
That's what I consider a 'master/pet' relationship to be. That's what I consider most fetishes to be, sexual or not.
And a collar/leash IS bondage. It's a captivity device. Wether you wear it for jewelrey or whatever, it shows that you're a sumbissive party in a relationship. Or, just submissive in general.
I'm really not trying to harp on people (okay, maybe I am...) or be a b***h about this. But I think anyone involved in this kind of relationship (sexual or not) should really do their research and understand the connotations of what being a 'pet' means.
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on December 20, 2005, 11:12:23 am
| Quote (FallenAngel @ Dec. 19 2005, 7:05 pm) |
| You're alot more to me than just my pet, dear. <3 |
I'd certaintly hope so! *mockhuff*
Post by: ObliviousAlly on December 20, 2005, 12:05:56 pm
| Quote (KeeperOfDreams @ Dec. 20 2005, 11:12 am) | ||
I'd certaintly hope so! *mockhuff* |
You can take that *mockhuff* elsewhere, dearie! :O
Post by: Party Pony on December 20, 2005, 12:12:51 pm
Ponies are so into being ridden.
In earlier years, I would go into 'slave mode' for fun on occasion. Bathing my partner, pampering them, dressing them, etc. It was usually just for a few hours or so. But I found it fun.
Generally, I am a male that has no problem playing the subordinate. I remember talking with folks at work and many of the guys were worried about women that made more money than them. I would be asked if I could love/live with a woman who made more money than me. I always said 'sure!' I would not mind at all being the homebody while someone else brought home the bacon. Heck, I know some guys who cannot even accept a female boss at work!
Post by: Duskyl on December 26, 2005, 07:51:06 pm
| Quote (FallenAngel @ Dec. 20 2005, 9:25 am) |
A fetish doesn't have to involve sex. |
Ah. Getting you. Apologies.
Post by: Far_Raptor on December 26, 2005, 11:22:11 pm
It's in my nature to treat other people as equals. At work, I play the management role...I'm just not that submissive. I could never go about bieng someone's furry pet for an extended period of time. If I ever was to be someone's pet, it would have to be somone I knew and trusted. In the end, i'd probably make a bad pet.
That's how us raptors are, I'm afraid--not so submissive. Ah well!
~FaR~
Post by: Leo on December 27, 2005, 07:07:40 am
Thats really a vauge thing though, the whole pet and master thing. I mean, it works to say that you belong to your lover as they belong to you, (mutual thing you know, like how relationships mainly are). And thats how it applies for me. Ive always wanted to be someones lion, and now Ive got a wonderfull vixen who I shall provide all the warm cuddles, support and encouragement, and security for
*blinks*
Eh-heh, yeah
this isn't exactly about romance as it would seem, but about just a fun little pretend thing?Post by: Komito on December 29, 2005, 12:23:45 pm
ad I'm happy I'm not any of their mates just their pet.
Post by: Laini on January 03, 2006, 03:55:33 pm
Quite a few times he'd use it to pull me close for a kiss and suggested I should get a lead too.
That could be interesting
Post by: Twilight on January 03, 2006, 08:33:36 pm
Post by: Karizma on January 04, 2006, 12:37:07 am
This happened the other day and I was like, "woah... did that come out of me?" It was a wierd moment. I had to post it here XP
Post by: Seti on January 04, 2006, 04:42:04 pm
| Quote (Twilight @ Jan. 03 2006, 8:33 pm) |
| i wanna be someones pet *whimpers and offers leash to anyfur willing* |
You really should be more selective.
Post by: Party Pony on January 04, 2006, 05:27:52 pm
| Quote (Far_Raptor @ Dec. 26 2005, 11:22 pm) |
| Honestly, I don't think I could handle being a 'pet'.... That's how us raptors are, I'm afraid--not so submissive. |
Which makes it all the more satisfying for the owner once you've been 'broken'.
heh-heh...
Post by: Maverick on January 04, 2006, 07:09:06 pm
| Quote (Party Pony @ Jan. 04 2006, 5:27 pm) | ||
Which makes it all the more satisfying for the owner once you've been 'broken'. heh-heh... |
i have to confess that i respect people's choices, but this one, i respect with a chuckle -- a pet? still... if some people are happy being pets, good for them. if it makes you happy, it can't be that bad, no?
some other people, though, (raises paw) are meant to be wild and free. =)
i recently had a chance to see a falcon that appeared to have escaped -- it had a strap of sorts tied to one of its talons. and as i looked at it closely, i saw it wasn't afraid of me at all, and he/she was curious about me too, just too smug to show it. =)
i thought it would be a horrible sin to "break" such a beautiful creature. which brings me back to "some people are meant to be wild and free." especially both. =) well, if they want to, that is.
Post by: truefox on January 06, 2006, 11:30:43 pm
i like cuddles and being scratched behind the ear and stuff i wouldnt see myself in a d/s relationship but i like the idea of just being loved
and is that so wrong never really thought about a collar, guess ill wait till i get my tail and ears and go from there
basicaly i say if it makes you happy go for it
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on January 07, 2006, 01:34:49 pm
| Quote (lazurii @ Jan. 04 2006, 7:09 pm) |
| "some people are meant to be wild and free." especially both. =) well, if they want to, that is. |
I may be a pet, but I am still wild and free. I do not consider myself broken in any way, shape or form. To me, being someone's pet is giving them your wholehearted trust, not your freedom. There's a difference between being a slave and a pet, you know.
Post by: Wolfen on January 07, 2006, 04:39:26 pm
"KeeperOfDreams
Hyena/leech/gerbil/koi/wolf/bat"
Your family must get around.
Post by: Seig on January 09, 2006, 01:12:54 pm
| Quote (KeeperOfDreams @ Jan. 07 2006, 1:34 pm) | ||
I may be a pet, but I am still wild and free. I do not consider myself broken in any way, shape or form. To me, being someone's pet is giving them your wholehearted trust, not your freedom. There's a difference between being a slave and a pet, you know. |
SQUEEE! EXACTLY WHAT IM' THINKIN!
I LOVE YOU! please be my bestest freind :3
Post by: Seig on January 09, 2006, 01:16:28 pm
Post by: Mazz on January 12, 2006, 11:40:56 pm
| Quote (KeeperOfDreams @ Jan. 07 2006, 1:34 pm) | ||
I may be a pet, but I am still wild and free. I do not consider myself broken in any way, shape or form. To me, being someone's pet is giving them your wholehearted trust, not your freedom. There's a difference between being a slave and a pet, you know. |
Agreed I may be David's pet, but I'm not a slave. Yes, I obey his comand, but any time I want to be myself and noyt be his pet I can.
I have more freedom being his pet than I did being my ex's girlfriend.
Post by: Komito on January 13, 2006, 12:13:51 am
Oh and Seig Remember Kimito From SL ^^ thats meh. Used to be a horse now and forever a panther
Post by: Komito on January 13, 2006, 02:02:29 am
. G-night talk to y'all tommarrowPost by: Seig on January 13, 2006, 08:49:53 am
| Quote (Komito @ Jan. 13 2006, 12:13 am) |
| check out my, Myspace http://profile.myspace.com/index.c....2345837 I want more friends and some comments (acsepually from some other pets out there) Oh and Seig Remember Kimito From SL ^^ thats meh. Used to be a horse now and forever a panther |
woah Kimi! hi! ^ ^ nice to see ya again! contact me on SL soon mkay?
Post by: Qubit on January 13, 2006, 09:27:40 am
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on January 13, 2006, 09:57:08 am
| Quote (Wolfen @ Jan. 07 2006, 4:39 pm) |
| "KeeperOfDreams Hyena/leech/gerbil/koi/wolf/bat" Your family must get around. |
*snickers* Nope, Mother Nature was just -really- tipsy that night. At least, that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it.
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on January 13, 2006, 09:59:11 am
| Quote (Seig @ Jan. 09 2006, 1:12 pm) |
| SQUEEE! EXACTLY WHAT IM' THINKIN! I LOVE YOU! please be my bestest freind :3 |
Er, sorry, already got a best friend, and from what I'm told, the waiting list is pretty long.
Post by: Seig on January 13, 2006, 11:16:08 am
| Quote (KeeperOfDreams @ Jan. 13 2006, 9:59 am) | ||
Er, sorry, already got a best friend, and from what I'm told, the waiting list is pretty long. |
can i at least be your freind?
Post by: Komito on January 13, 2006, 07:20:26 pm
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on January 13, 2006, 08:35:54 pm
| Quote (Seig @ Jan. 13 2006, 11:16 am) |
| can i at least be your freind? |
Uhhh, you can -try-, don't see why not, but I'm not the sort who makes friends easily. Not going to stop you from trying though.
Post by: Karizma on January 22, 2006, 04:10:29 pm
=^_^=
Post by: cheetah_child on January 22, 2006, 04:16:35 pm
I just love the feeling of A collor around my neck, I don't know why i just do, And the idea of being restrained by a leash really excites me
Post by: Karizma on January 22, 2006, 04:30:33 pm
Post by: A416 on January 22, 2006, 07:24:35 pm
Post by: on January 23, 2006, 01:39:29 am
-Mik Genocide
Post by: Rheiga on February 10, 2006, 12:07:40 am
Post by: Seti on February 11, 2006, 07:45:07 pm
Post by: Komito on February 18, 2006, 03:24:52 pm
Post by: RedneckFur on February 18, 2006, 04:32:08 pm
Post by: Serra Belvoule on February 18, 2006, 06:20:27 pm
So that's a yes. I'd wear a collar and a leash.
Post by: on February 18, 2006, 07:09:23 pm
Post by: Black Foot on February 18, 2006, 11:20:16 pm
Post by: Loni on February 18, 2006, 11:48:39 pm
im gettin a collar
its gunna have a dogtag that says Vixen on it in the shape of a heart
Post by: Kattywampus on February 19, 2006, 01:58:29 pm
Pets are neat!
...and if you wanna be someone's pet so bad...
*cough* Join the catboy harem! It's non-yiffy. I just want a huge cat/etc. collection. As of this posting, I have 12!
Post by: Mange on February 26, 2006, 06:57:55 pm
Post by: snowball on February 27, 2006, 10:46:24 am
| Quote (Komito @ Dec. 12 2005, 12:24 am) |
| Well I got into a game Called SL. I was just a normal person getting into the furryfandom and I met someone I love oh so very much. Now I' am his pet on SL and am now his pet irl *blushes* and I have never felt any happyier ever before. I now want to know if there is anyone else like me *chuckles* or others that like to wear collars. Personally I love collars and leashes heh. any one else outthere like me? |
Your not alone here my friend i too love wearing my collar and soon very soon i'll be with my mate/ Master IRL .. he is buying me my tags for my collar and when we get together i'll wear his tags with pride.. so to answer your question no your not alone..
Post by: KiyoshiAkita on March 03, 2006, 10:32:10 pm
Holy crap, I just got two collars and a leash (all of leather) at the pet store for $3.00 a piece! The thick collar was priced at $30-something and the other collar & leash were also priced quite high too. Thank you, clearance sales.
The thick collar is a medium-dark leather.
The thin collar is the same color, but with fur on it and the leash is the same as the furry collar.
Wow, that stuff probably should have cost around $60+ ... but I got it for around 10 bucks. Always look for clearance items people...
Post by: Blackstripe on March 03, 2006, 10:46:21 pm
However, there have been several people who have begged to be my pets. I mean, who wouldn't want a loving chakat for an owner.
Post by: Black Foot on March 03, 2006, 11:01:16 pm
Post by: Kwan on March 04, 2006, 06:42:09 pm
Fallen Angel, I want to give you mega-hugs for all of your posts!! You did an admirable job of educating without being patronizing or snotty. You make me happy.
So does Keeper of Dreams:
| Quote |
| I may be a pet, but I am still wild and free. I do not consider myself broken in any way, shape or form. To me, being someone's pet is giving them your wholehearted trust, not your freedom. There's a difference between being a slave and a pet, you know. |
As far as myself, I'm a Dominant who would love having a pet. However I have my own stipulations & standards for that to happen-- as must anyone else who is serious about it, especially those who want to be a pet. Being submissive does NOT mean automatically abandoning your rights.
Both potential owner & pet should be certain that all parties involved understand what's expected, what the limits are, and will respect them. Don't be so enraptured with the idea being/owning a pet that you will accept just anyone. That can lead to a negative experience, and is potentially dangerous.
There are as many different types of pet/owner as there are people. Everyone has their own take on it. None of them are wrong.
Post by: ObliviousAlly on March 04, 2006, 07:51:49 pm
| Quote (Kwan @ Mar. 04 2006, 6:42 pm) | ||
| I've avoided reading this topic, because I'm part of the Dominant/submissive lifestyle (BDSM with heavy leaning on the BDS), and I didn't want to gnash my teeth over seeing nothing but silly "I'm a pet, LOL!" comments. Fallen Angel, I want to give you mega-hugs for all of your posts!! You did an admirable job of educating without being patronizing or snotty. You make me happy. So does Keeper of Dreams:
As far as myself, I'm a Dominant who would love having a pet. However I have my own stipulations & standards for that to happen-- as must anyone else who is serious about it, especially those who want to be a pet. Being submissive does NOT mean automatically abandoning your rights. Both potential owner & pet should be certain that all parties involved understand what's expected, what the limits are, and will respect them. Don't be so enraptured with the idea being/owning a pet that you will accept just anyone. That can lead to a negative experience, and is potentially dangerous. There are as many different types of pet/owner as there are people. Everyone has their own take on it. None of them are wrong. |
Oh wow, thank you. ^_^ It's very hard to not come off like a complete b***h sometimes, cause I've VERY outspoken and I have a VERY low tolerance for some things. x_x
Heck, I'm not even very dominant to my mate (who is Keeper, BTW), much to her dismay. X3 I never thought I'd ever be in a D/S relationship and, honestly, we both have more 'switch' attitudes about it. So I can see it from both sides, to a point. I'm far too independent to ever act as a 'pet' on a normal basis.
And yes, like you said, people should not jump for the first person willing to be their 'master'. Me and Keeper have a LONG standing relationship. We've been through alot together and our relationship is built on trust.
Post by: Mange on March 04, 2006, 10:05:54 pm
Post by: Rimpala on March 04, 2006, 10:43:23 pm
like being the pet isn't so bad, especially when you have a good owner -_^
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on March 05, 2006, 01:23:35 pm
| Quote (Kwan @ Mar. 04 2006, 6:42 pm) | ||
So does Keeper of Dreams:
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Yeah, I realize most people wanting to be a 'pet' don't fully understand the lifestyle (heck, I'm still pretty much a n00b to BDSM myself, but I do want to learn more) and think it's some sort of silly, online/RL game they can play. That's why I try to make people understand that it's not that simple, it's even more complicated than your basic relationship is because of all the trust and rules that go into it.
Post by: RedneckFur on March 07, 2006, 12:11:08 am
I tell him that his happiness and saftey are the most important things to me. I want to have a rewarding, happy and safe master/pet relationship with him.
Post by: Milo Thunderbird on March 07, 2006, 09:56:24 am
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Post by: Zanner on March 07, 2006, 09:33:50 pm
EDITED for typos an stuff
Post by: HellstripeKitty on April 11, 2006, 09:23:02 am
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Post by: Felix Andrews on April 13, 2006, 08:19:21 pm
- Felix
Post by: Keeshanic Fox on April 15, 2006, 04:07:48 am
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So true.Don't really know if I would want to be a pet or not. I do wear a collar every now and then, but I don't think anybody owns me.
Post by: Scani on April 16, 2006, 10:45:07 pm
Those who have refused strongly to be pets should know this: It's very much dependent on your personality. A very strong-willed individual wouldn't make a good sub. I know I'm better suited for a dominance role (and have the psychological evidence to "prove" it), but it obviously requires experience and a gentle hand to get to it.
What other people have said about those sort of relationships being an indicator of trust is 100% true. But respect the rights of the sub and you really can't go wrong.
I'll try and share my experiences as they come, but I figured being a little bit immersed in this sort of thing myself I should at least give some comment on it.
Post by: Ginakki on April 17, 2006, 03:05:57 pm
I'm not into the whole pet/master thing anyway.
Post by: Komito on May 28, 2006, 01:56:28 am
. I'm still a pet, lol and still loving it, thx for keeping the thread up I'm still in shock Post by: Mango on May 28, 2006, 03:51:44 pm
Post by: SerFox on May 28, 2006, 06:21:42 pm
Pets are contravertial. There are different kinds of pets and different ways of being a pet. The part I find ok is having an 'Owner', and it's usually just a close relatioship and they share special time together, but not in love like mates, but very close friendship. Then there is pet and master, which is a soft way of being 'slave', and we ain't going into that on this PG area, all I say is I disagree with Masters ordering their pets aorund maliciously, and am uncomfortable with it sometimes, especially if they are controlling in a bad way, just to get what they want. It can be very selfish. But some people are into it.
My two cents.
Post by: Tav Nymblewynd on May 28, 2006, 09:23:43 pm
Post by: Iron_Sunsetscales on June 04, 2006, 06:26:37 am
Humans abused us for as long we all know, and that makes me mad.The fact for me is, dragons are free to go and stand where they will, no masters and not servants! not anymore!
I see my close friends on a other way, and they know that while reading now ^^
And the same i will never be a master either, to command furrs or walk with them on a leash...
Nope nothing for me.
~Iron
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on June 04, 2006, 11:59:06 am
| Quote (Iron_Sunsetscales @ June 04 2006, 6:26 am) |
| And the same i will never be a master either, to command furrs or walk with them on a leash... Nope nothing for me. ~Iron |
A pet is never commanded. A slave, yes. But a pet is treated fairly, as would any non-human pet. My master doesn't order me around. She may ask me to do things for her, but she never orders.
As for being walked on a leash, I LOVE it. It makes me feel loved, to know that no matter how far I run the leash still connects me back to her.
Post by: Iron_Sunsetscales on June 04, 2006, 12:12:54 pm
| Quote (KeeperOfDreams @ June 04 2006, 11:59 am) | ||
A pet is never commanded. A slave, yes. But a pet is treated fairly, as would any non-human pet. My master doesn't order me around. She may ask me to do things for her, but she never orders. As for being walked on a leash, I LOVE it. It makes me feel loved, to know that no matter how far I run the leash still connects me back to her. |
No bad feelings really, its just the way i think that animals should be free to do what they want to, thats my own opinion, off course they don't have to listen, but if you don't, what you get?
Anyway, sure it must be fun, but its simply not my piece of cake, i have other ways to show my friends i love them
No hard feelings at all.
~Iron
Post by: SerFox on June 04, 2006, 05:07:51 pm
I might get a leash for my collar..
Post by: ObliviousAlly on June 05, 2006, 12:06:11 am
| Quote (KeeperOfDreams @ June 04 2006, 11:59 am) | ||
A pet is never commanded. A slave, yes. But a pet is treated fairly, as would any non-human pet. My master doesn't order me around. She may ask me to do things for her, but she never orders. As for being walked on a leash, I LOVE it. It makes me feel loved, to know that no matter how far I run the leash still connects me back to her. |
That is the sweetest thing I think you've ever said. Remind me of that when I'm an idiot and don't pay attention to your leash. You know I'm absentminded, after all. D:
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on June 05, 2006, 11:48:42 am
| Quote (FallenAngel @ June 05 2006, 12:06 am) |
| That is the sweetest thing I think you've ever said. Remind me of that when I'm an idiot and don't pay attention to your leash. You know I'm absentminded, after all. D: |
*sticks her tongue out and thbbbbts!* Try and remember yourself.
Post by: Gwyndolium on June 05, 2006, 11:59:10 am
Post by: siiwolf on June 05, 2006, 01:18:57 pm
One thing I've noticed with the people I do know who have been into pets for awhile is that it does lead to other kinkier fetishes later down the line. It's just a slow process of introducing people to new ideas. Too often, though, soon all these kinks begin to contribute to a greater extent of what furry lifestyling is all about and then they're really stuck in a nightmare.
As far as relationships go, it's good to want to build trust, but in the long run the slave/master idea most likely damages it. Why should one person be confined to a slave, the other a master? Even if both parties are willing do you actually think you have a right to even exercise such an action over another individual? For the master's it's too easy to power trip being in control of someone else. For those who want to be submissive they need to learn how to actually be assertive (and slaves can't do that, leaving them open to serious personal attack later on in life). If you need to rely on such an extreme method for building trust chances are you're relationship is already headed in the wrong direction.
Besides, you don't want to go too far in something that not even 50% of people who make the committment to get married can even do: stay together
Post by: Gwyndolium on June 05, 2006, 03:54:51 pm
Post by: Streak on June 06, 2006, 12:18:37 am
Post by: KeeperOfDreams on June 06, 2006, 07:51:30 am
Please people, read a wiki or something, actually educate yourselves on a topic before spouting off stuff.
The more you know...
Post by: ObliviousAlly on June 06, 2006, 09:32:47 am
http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Master/slave
Read, learn. Heck, read everything there so people stop being ignorant and learn. Ugh.
Tthe master/pet relationship IS NOT A STRICTLY FURRY THING. Christ. Just because it has the word 'pet' in it, does not relate it to the fandom/culture.
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I agree, but most SENSIBLE people don't do this. The D/s relationship comes up AFTER they've been together and have learned to trust one another. Anyone who uses it to begin a relationship or to learn to trust someone is setting themselves up for a whole lot of mental/emotional anguish. Possbly physical, as well, if they're not smart enough.
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| One thing I've noticed with the people I do know who have been into pets for awhile is that it does lead to other kinkier fetishes later down the line. It's just a slow process of introducing people to new ideas. Too often, though, soon all these kinks begin to contribute to a greater extent of what furry lifestyling is all about and then they're really stuck in a nightmare. |
Yeah, and doing anything leads to something else. That's how people work. There's nothing wrong with new ideas and there's nothing wrong with people praticing alternative lifestyles. FURRIES ARE ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLERS. And most furries are a bunch of freaks. I'd bet at least half the fandom pratices SOME form of BDSM.
Ugh. If half of this doesn't make sense it's because I need some more sleep before work. x_x
Post by: Party Pony on June 07, 2006, 01:36:38 am
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| The master/pet relationship IS NOT A STRICTLY FURRY THING |
Actually, there are very few things "strictly furry". Drawing anthros, wearing suits, roleplaying, etc. are all things that happen outside the furworld. And since pet relationships DO occur in the furworld, they are a valid topic of discussion here.
And, despite any "official" encyclopedia entries, there are really no hard and fast rules for any relationship. Guidelines, maybe. But a pet/owner or a master/servant could have unlimited potential.
Though not a 'pet' I have enjoyed being a 'slave fox' at times for role playing. And I did not need any of the official rules to do so. Monopoly has rules. Relationships do not.
Post by: Moon-Baby on June 30, 2006, 02:26:40 am
Post by: Zarathus on June 30, 2006, 07:43:03 am
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| One thing I've noticed with the people I do know who have been into pets for awhile is that it does lead to other kinkier fetishes later down the line. It's just a slow process of introducing people to new ideas. Too often, though, soon all these kinks begin to contribute to a greater extent of what furry lifestyling is all about and then they're really stuck in a nightmare. |
Is that really an inherently bad thing? If the person is willing to delve into the concept in the first place, they're either going to be into the ideas of it, or are looking around out of curiosity. The latter resulting in them probably leaving the whole thing if they find it isn't for them. Admittedly, there will always be cases where people find themselves too far into something that's beginning to hurt them on some level, but that typically comes from poor judgement :|
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| As far as relationships go, it's good to want to build trust, but in the long run the slave/master idea most likely damages it. Why should one person be confined to a slave, the other a master? Even if both parties are willing do you actually think you have a right to even exercise such an action over another individual? For the master's it's too easy to power trip being in control of someone else. For those who want to be submissive they need to learn how to actually be assertive (and slaves can't do that, leaving them open to serious personal attack later on in life). If you need to rely on such an extreme method for building trust chances are you're relationship is already headed in the wrong direction. |
What's to say it was even initiated on terms of building trust?
People tend to be aware of what they want and are aiming for, before they get themself into this sort of thing. In many cases it seems the people involved aren't in it for a "typical" relationship in the first place. And it's not as though this is just something you'd accidentally fall into, and have your life drained away through it, out of "bad treatment".
Still, this is all speaking about a subject that I don't think was originally intended, but I guess the idea of pets could fall under this, depending on a persons' definition.
For myself, I don't know about the idea of being a pet, or having one. I can quite easily see myself as one, I suppose.
In relationships I prefer to be led by the other, but much of it depends on the person. Although I feel more comfortable with being led, I'll take initiative if I have to. Of course, it's not a matter of giving up my personal freedom to the other, either, and if I don't want to do something, I'm not going to do it. I usually just need to be pushed in one direction or another.
Post by: Drake Blackpaw on June 30, 2006, 01:58:42 pm
As has already been mentioned by several other people before me, pet/master and slave/master relationships are not exclusively 'furry' thing. There are many more outside of the fandom that are involved in these relationships than inside the fandom.
I've dabbled in the non-furry BDSM scene and while not finding it the place for me, there are many people who get a lot out of BDSM relationships. BDSM relationships are not about abuse, but are about trust and often the bounds where trust can go. A pet or slave must have a lot of trust in a master to put themselves in their control. Likewise and what many people don't realize who haven't been exposed to BDSM, is that the master needs to have a lot of trust in their pet or slave to let them know when a boundary is crossed or something is happening that they do not want to happen. Part of a submissive's responsibilities is to let the dominant partner know when something is going wrong. The deep exploration of trust involved in these relationships can be very cathartic for a lot of people.
(Yes, there are examples of bad and abusive BDSM relationships, however there are many examples of bad and abusive 'straight', 'non-kinky' relationships as well.)
As for being a pet leading to other 'kinkier' things? Well, if you are the type of person to experiment in things outside the norm then as you get exposed to new ideas you will likely try them. 'Kinky' doesn't equate to bad, it just means it's not what the average person would do.
I like what Party Pony said about there being no rules for relationships. What works for one set of people does not neccessarily work for another set.
It's not suprising that there are many in the furry fandom who are attracted to BDSM, especially the role playing aspects of it. Furries like to be creative and use their imagination and many furries enjoy role playing as well. Is it any suprise that these things become part of their relationships and adult activities as well?
Post by: Ears on June 30, 2006, 02:36:56 pm
Anyway, I wouldn't mind being a pet. lol. I'm really not the master type.
Post by: Lone_Wulf on August 03, 2006, 04:42:34 pm
Just give me nice treatment and basic respect, that's all I ask. Heck, I'd even sleep by a girl's bed like a pet.
Post by: Ashki on August 23, 2006, 10:22:35 am
Post by: Komito on August 25, 2006, 07:49:35 pm
Post by: MusPuppis on September 09, 2006, 07:24:25 pm
Its something that relaxs me and it feels 'right' for all the sense that that makes. Being a girl's pet would please me to no end, but it would have to fall within the confines of a relationship that existed prior to the owner/pet introduction. I find myself both dominant and submissive, and very protective, so playing the part of someone's wolf pet is very natural to me.
Being petted is a very relaxing experience to. Again, not in a sexual way at all, just an intimacy and trust thing. Being scratched behind the ears will put me to sleep in about 11 seconds flat, lol.
I think its an excellent thing, but should be entered in to with caution. Its alot of trust to put in someone and you need to know their in it for the same reasons you are not to try and take advantage of you or the like.
Sorry if this is a stupid question.. But what is SL?
Post by: ShadowKitsune on September 26, 2006, 12:32:33 pm
Someone's (girlfriend) pet?
Only if you can put me in a doghouse ^^
Post by: Queen of Minimal on September 28, 2006, 02:51:22 pm
Bad news:
1) The beans are not edible
2) One needs a big bean bag to get total satisfaction.
Good news:
2) Beats a sofa
1) Not as expensive as a sofa
My one is red and is pure cotton.
Sometimes I like pretending to be the cat. I have been known to eat Brekkies. The cat and I have been at war. Once my cat caught me with my head in his food bowl. Cat got claws out and scratched me. I shot up and the cat stood there with arched back.
Gave it some food.
Post by: Streak on September 28, 2006, 11:55:02 pm
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| In England we have things called bean bags. |
Not just an England thing. Those are everywhere. As far as I know they go by the same name as well.
Post by: Red Reynart on January 25, 2007, 04:19:08 am
I like the felling of being wild and free with the world to play in, and to travel to the ends of earth. But I hate loneliness and no one around. But what is another furry for anyway.
But even thought I am wild I happen to like a bandana.
Post by: Komito on March 03, 2007, 01:29:38 am
Post by: Streak on March 03, 2007, 03:17:56 am
You might remember me better as Tigeyyigey.
Post by: Vivian on March 03, 2007, 11:49:47 pm
| Quote (Komito @ Mar. 03 2007, 1:29 am) |
| I hate bringing up dead posts, but I have been Gone away for ages and wasnt 2 sure where to begin so I started out back to where I started at furtopia in 2004 with this thread ^^, it is long ago dead just a few weeks dead so dun kill me *hides behind my owner* I'am still a pet, and my true love and "master" (same person). He is probably gunna be coming down to visit me on my 18th b-day this October. My reasons for bringing this thread back up is this - so is there any new pet/ owner relationships out there and how have they gone? ^^ |
^^ Congratulations! Is this your first time meeting your True love/Master?
Post by: Komito on March 06, 2007, 01:23:01 am
Post by: Gwyndolium on March 06, 2007, 12:01:33 pm
Post by: Vivian on March 06, 2007, 02:48:04 pm
| Quote (Komito @ Mar. 06 2007, 1:23 am) |
| yes it is ^^ |
Awwe, that's great! ^_^ Congratulations, and I hope it goes well. If all goes well, I'll be meeting my love (and dom in the relationship) soon too, so I'm excited for you!
Post by: TCD on March 06, 2007, 04:43:14 pm
Oh, and while I'm not in a BDSM relationship at current, I do consider myself a submissive/pet/pyl. I'm still exploring myself, which is a bit hard out here. Thank goodness for the internet!
Post by: Vinor on March 06, 2007, 09:04:37 pm
Post by: Komito on March 08, 2007, 02:05:29 am
| Quote (TCD @ Mar. 06 2007, 4:43 pm) |
| Congratulations, but remember to PLEASE BE SAFE! Since this is the first time you've met with this guy offline, meet in a public place, and remember you don't have to play the first time. Remember to communicate to your partner, it's what keeps you both physically and mentally okay. My suggestion is that if you do go off to play, have a safe call system in place. Tell someone you trust what you're doing and where you're going. Tell them you're going to call them at a specific time. (AND FOLLOW THROUGH.) If you don't call, they know to call the police because something went wrong. *hugs* Don't mean to scare you, but it's a dangerous world out there. Oh, and while I'm not in a BDSM relationship at current, I do consider myself a submissive/pet/pyl. I'm still exploring myself, which is a bit hard out here. Thank goodness for the internet! |
I have known him for 2 years now, yes we have been in love for 2 years and he has been my master for 2 years now ^^. and yes, we are going to meet together irl with my mom around, in my mom's house, yes she knows about us as lovers, (not so much the bdsm scene
. )
Post by: Nahari_Thornpaw on March 08, 2007, 05:27:28 pm
i have quite a nice collar collection tho
Post by: writerdog on April 25, 2007, 10:16:07 pm
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Post by: PawsOfFate on April 28, 2007, 11:47:16 pm
Oh yeah I have a leash too.
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Post by: Firelight on February 14, 2013, 04:20:43 pm
As for being one I'm more of a loner but maybe if it was my friend Latisha....That might be a different story.
Post by: Kobuk on February 14, 2013, 04:26:06 pm