Author Topic: Furry sexuality (Read 70876 times)

Firebreath · « **Reply #100 on:** June 06, 2003, 12:40:52 am »

Although I haven't read everything (and well, what I read was speed reading... I mean, it's late and there is a LOT here... *cute puppy eyes*), I can safely say that I'm gay.
I had a female partner about 2.5 years ago, had sex with her, and well... yeah... that's about it, really...
And now, I have a boyfriend with whom I've been with for the past 2 years in october, and well, I have to admit, bed sports are WAY better with someone of the same sex so far!

I beleive that it's just a part of nature. A small number of individuals are just "like that", animals or humans. I haven't done lenghty researches, but from what I remember of my biology class when we talked about homosexuality, "it just is". It's not a illment, it's not a "mental disorder", it "just is", like heterosexuality.

And I think I should be lucky to live in Montreal, where the gay community i rather well accepted (well, as far as I'm concerned with my own experiences...)

Jadnar · « **Reply #101 on:** June 21, 2003, 07:08:05 pm »

*litterally shudders on reading the chunky milk comment*

Ugh.. yuck...

*recovers a bit from the over powering imagination he has*

Anyways, Ya, I haven't experinced anything like that, but I figure such comments are bound to fly, specially with the more ignorent of peeps. *shrugs* Though I don't really try to pursuade them, if they were to say that to me. I mean, considering if they think that way, they'll probubly continue to exist in the black and white. Usually first impressions stick, and once they are stuck its hard to take it off and put it back on right.

Cravin · « **Reply #102 on:** February 27, 2003, 12:57:10 am »

I am a catholic but I understand that people should be able to fallow there heart and own idea of what God wants or even if he/she/it is there, and listening.

DrakonianDanceR · « **Reply #103 on:** February 27, 2003, 02:58:55 pm »

Quote (Cravin @ Feb. 27 2003, 5:57 am)

I am a catholic but I understand that people should be able to fallow there heart and own idea of what God wants or even if he/she/it is there, and listening.

The first half of that sentance is good - how no matter what you might believe in yourself, you have respect for others, and how they wish to live. Going onto God is personal to you, Cravin, though you still show respect for those that do not neccessarily believe in Him. Many other religious people are like this too, and I am happy for that. But there are those that do live differently, and tell people that what they're doing is a sin, and not right to do. I think these types have absolutely no respect at all. They would expect other people to respect their beliefs, although they themselves will not respect or even try to understand other peoples'. I hope I have made this clear to understand.

Bear Paw · « **Reply #104 on:** February 27, 2003, 06:46:14 pm »

What you said DrakonianDanceR is absolutly right and perfectly clear. How can you expect tolerance for your own beliefs If you have none for theirs. Now if they could only understand that concept then they might understand why they have so much oppersition it is of there own making.

WhiteShepherd · « **Reply #105 on:** February 27, 2003, 11:02:35 pm »

Nods.. this doggie has to pipe in and say I've been really impressed with our community. We have fursons from all walks of life and opinions. We can talk just about anything and we still show respect to each other.

Very cool folks and very rare in this big wide world.

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WhiteShepherd

Job · « **Reply #106 on:** February 27, 2003, 11:40:46 pm »

I think i'm an anabaptist (is that correct??) they believed they shouldn't force their religion on anyone, i think and they wouldn't even baptise their own children until they were old enough to decide it for their selves. I think that's right... ah well what ever class i learned that in i wasn't paying attention, and they're not around anymore i dunt think but that's a good view

Benjamin · « **Reply #107 on:** February 28, 2003, 09:48:25 am »

Quote (WhiteShepherd @ Feb. 27 2003, 11:02 pm)

Nods.. this doggie has to pipe in and say I've been really impressed with our community. Â We have fursons from all walks of life and opinions. Â We can talk just about anything and we still show respect to each other.

Very cool folks and very rare in this big wide world.

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Benjamin whistles a care-free little tune while he continues to hide the impliments of much pain behind his back...

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Well, most furs are rather well behaved. I'm pleased that these folks are sharing their opinions. A lot of furs I've met are afraid to have their opinions known, it would seem. ':p'

Benjamin

WhiteShepherd · « **Reply #108 on:** February 28, 2003, 01:36:54 pm »

Nods.. though some are not in as safe an enviroment.

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Chaz_wolf · « **Reply #109 on:** February 28, 2003, 01:44:42 pm »

I just have one thing to add to this..

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Chaz

Benjamin · « **Reply #110 on:** February 28, 2003, 02:17:12 pm »

Quote (WhiteShepherd @ Feb. 28 2003, 1:36 pm)

Nods.. though some are not in as safe an enviroment.

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I'm referring to even being among fellow furs, actually... though I do see your point in your interpretation of it.
Some people are just flaky to the core.

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Benjamin

Cravin · « **Reply #111 on:** February 28, 2003, 10:05:13 pm »

@DrakonianDancer Thank you.

I always felt that it is better to make up our own minds and not let others try and do it for you.

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DrakonianDanceR · « **Reply #112 on:** March 01, 2003, 05:53:51 am »

Quote (Cravin @ Mar. 01 2003, 3:05 am)

@DrakonianDancer Thank you.

I always felt that it is better to make up our own minds and not let others try and do it for you. Â

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That is always the best way. Though, unfortunatly, living in human society makes me see how scared they all are of being different, or of change. That is the reason they all stay together, doing the same as each other. And then, when they see someone/something that is not considered normal in their eyes, they just do not even want to try to understand or accept. This does pain me, though I, and many others have had to learn how to live with it. Even now, I am considered weird in the opinions, not because of my Draconity (I've learned not to speak of that), but because of my open-mindedness. No-one can seem to understand how I can believe in things they don't. To me, being open-minded is nothing - I know that a lot of people (general term for anyone) are open-minded - so I think that does go to show how frustratingly narrow-minded human society is. It is saddening, yet I, and countless others have just had to learn to live in this world. But I digress. Making your own mind up about things, having your own opinions, unbiased from the views of others is a wonderful thing. Keep it.

Jadnar · « **Reply #113 on:** March 01, 2003, 08:21:57 am »

Agreed... *nods*

Job · « **Reply #114 on:** March 01, 2003, 02:41:48 pm »

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when they see someone/something that is not considered normal in their eyes, they just do not even want to try to understand or accept.

Yes, be we are all like that a little. I don't know anyone who is fully eccepting or tolerent of everyone and everything and doesn't judge anyone at all.

DrakonianDanceR · « **Reply #115 on:** March 01, 2003, 03:02:10 pm »

Quote (Job @ Mar. 01 2003, 7:41 pm)

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when they see someone/something that is not considered normal in their eyes, they just do not even want to try to understand or accept.

Yes, be we are all like that a little. I don't know anyone who is fully eccepting or tolerent of everyone and everything and doesn't judge anyone at all.

I wasn't saying that. I know that very few people are accepting of everything, but a lot more could be more understanding, without having to agree and believe in what someone else does, if you understand me. I respect the views and opinions of everyone - that doesn't mean I nessecarily (sp) agree with them, but it means that I accept that is what they believe, and I respect that. As for judging people, I do not do that at all - I'm too open-minded to form any strong opinions on people at all. Though, again, I know that many people do judge too easily.

« **Reply #116 on:** June 21, 2003, 06:44:50 pm »

I was pretty sure there were more straights then gays or bisexuals. Infact I wanst even aware that some one would even question it. I think my personal favorite, being bi, is when I am told that 'If you love a guy you are gay no matter what you do with women.' Ahh yes, ignorant trogs tumbling still from the hills north of me mannage to weed their dismal euphoria into my ears. It reminds me of thick chunky milk...*Nuzzles and darts off*

Bear Paw · « **Reply #117 on:** March 02, 2003, 05:39:37 pm »

It is hard to think that people out there can be so harsh in there judgements. If you don't fit in to there version of reality/normality then your out. I did pose this little argument to someone like this they never said what they thought so here it is.
For aguments sake say you asked 4 people if they where normal and the same. They reply yes
You ask them to look at a tree and ask Â what type of tree is Â it.
3 reply an oak 1 replys thats a beech
The other 3 say he's mad obviously not normal.
You ask the remaining 3 what color is it's foliedge.
2 reply green 1 replys it's kind of aqua color
again the other 2 dismiss the 3rd as mad and not like them.
you ask the last two ok do you like it.
1 replys no the other yes they both declaire each other wrong and go there seperate ways.

Right this VERY simplified way but everyone started off agreeing it was a tree everyone was ok, in the end none agreed. The point being is that we are the same yet we see the world through our own eyes, how could we ever hope too bring together something that is so alike yet so diffrent at the same time mondo paradox if you ask me. Â
One other thing a question could god create a question so complex that even he could not answer it and could we be god way of trying too understand it. Are we just the universe trying too understand itself.
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Â AM I JUST GOING MAD HERE DO I MAKE SENSE !!!

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if so let me know
i have too go and rest my brain it hurts after all that thinking in circles.
* bear paw runs screaming to a nice quiet sanctuary*

(edited too add honey for the bears out there enjoy

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MadDawg276 · « **Reply #118 on:** June 13, 2003, 04:13:46 am »

Quote (WhiteShepherd @ May 23 2003, 2:16 am)

There has been a push for acknowledgment that homosexuality in human civilization and nature is common place and a normal and functional/useful part of nature.

Another Article about homosexuality in the animal kingdom I saw a while back on Flayrah

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There are also links to other articles from that to more articles on the subject matter.

MadDawg276

Kada-Ru · « **Reply #119 on:** June 06, 2003, 06:53:11 pm »

(giggles) If we were all the same, life would be very boring!

WhiteShepherd · « **Reply #120 on:** June 07, 2003, 12:03:29 am »

For myself I am Bi (learned strongly female biased). Â In the past I have had two GF and two BF (finally finding Kadda

'> ). Â The experience of sex is how well your mind and personality meshes with your partner. Â It can be just sex or it can be pure magic and the best feelings of life. Â Wether your more connected to males/females doesn't matter. Â Itâ€™s all how connected you are (IMO). Â

Â WhiteShepherd

Jadnar · « **Reply #121 on:** March 04, 2003, 06:10:50 pm »

Yes BearPaw, Your going insane. Your just plain mad, repeat after me- I am very insane, very very very insane.

No, actually Your point makes sence. Everyone has their own perspectives, as a result the definition to 'normal' does not exist. In fact I don't think the word Normal should exist. Its a word that should never be used.

Benjamin · « **Reply #122 on:** June 06, 2003, 06:11:32 pm »

I was speaking from experience, myself. I had been burned by a couple of women in my past, then tried the gay thing, but found that that wasn't to my liking anyways.
Vive la difference, eh?

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Benjamin

Kada-Ru · « **Reply #123 on:** June 06, 2003, 02:58:45 pm »

Benjamin Posted on June 06 2003, 1:03 am

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In the gay community, most will demand equal rights for homosexuals, but there are still some that are poor embassadors and will make snide, degrading remarks about heterosexuals.

I have seen this too in the past.

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Once I moved on and got my own place I let him move in and rent a room from me. It only took 3 months before I finally had to ask him to move on. (shakes head) He had been making really demeaning remarks about females etc., and since I am female, I just couldn't take it any longer. I thought he was one that didn't behave like that. I was sure surprised when he started talking like that. Perhaps he didn't because I was manager and didn't want to make waves. I don't know. But it was still sad and his words still hurt.

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I am definitely heterosexual but I don't put down any of the gays or lesbians down. I feel that as much as I have a right to be who I am so do they.

DrakonianDanceR · « **Reply #124 on:** March 05, 2003, 02:17:10 pm »

Quote (Jadnar @ Mar. 04 2003, 11:10 pm)

No, actually Your point makes sence. Everyone has their own perspectives, as a result the definition to 'normal' does not exist. In fact I don't think the word Normal should exist. Its a word that should never be used.

But is overly used. Everyone does have their own perspectives, as you say, yet many are affraid to express them, due to the fear of not being considered 'normal'. Normal doesn't exsist - it only lives due to those that keep it burning as an important part of their lives. I'm sure you can understand what I'm saying. There is no 'normal', only poorly made social views.

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