i personally am not hated, simply because i do not force anything upon people. if you go up to someone and say, "hey, im a furry, you should act like me" or something retarded like that, then of course people will hate you. if you talk about it a lot to people, they won't care and then they will hate you. kinda like trekies, don't you just get annoyed when they start telling you about how the 15 episode in the 8th season didn't follow along with the 32 episode in the 5th? or has that never happened to you. i guess what im trying to say is, either way you will be hated: if you talk about being a furry alot, people will think you are strange. on the other hand if you try they ask you why you are one and you try to hard to explain it, they will hate you for not seeing things their way. which brings me to a question, do you hate those who hate you? if you do, then you are no better than they. be acceptive at all costs. i do this and that is why i am not hated.