It's been several months since the creation of my site, and I'm still having this problem! I find posts I've made here at these forums, a deleted Flickr account, and my livejournal profile and there's still no mention of my site on any search engines, even if I enter the URL into the search *sighs*
I did what Niner said and submitted the site to Google, but they were uncertain as to when and whether it would actually be added to their "directory"
There must be something I'm missing about all of this...