On the whole, I agree with you, TCD-- most people who participate in the debate threads manage to keep things surprisingly civil. However, keep in mind that the Furtopia staff is pretty hyperactive when it comes to moderating the forums, and we deal with problems very quickly. As a result, you guys don't see a lot of the worst instances of baiting, disrespecting other members, personal attacks, etc. I know, I know, this is an unfalsifiable claim, because I have no way of showing you the evidence. But trust me here.
There's a reason that we took over a month to decide on Furlong's question. I'm that reason. I was the holdout, because I wanted to explore whether there was any way to create a debate forum here without making our own lives miserable. But in the end, I decided against it. If anyone wants to continue the conversation, feel free to PM me.